Thinking about giving your partner a massage? If you’re thinking it’s just going to be another one of those awkward encounters where you struggle to find things to talk about, then you are absolutely correct. Giving someone else a massage is an extremely intimate thing to do. It exposes them in ways that few people will ever see them and any negative implications could have serious consequences for your relationship. However, the potential benefits from a good tantric massage can be huge. It’s not just a simple rub down. With the right approach, it can have an amazing effect on both partners, creating more intimacy and helping to bring you both closer together than ever before. Here are some tips to get you started on learning how to give your partner an amazing tantric massage that they won’t forget anytime soon.
Be Sensual, Not Sexual
All too often couples get caught up in trying to make the massage sexual, and it doesn’t have to be that way. There’s nothing wrong with being a little bit naughty, but don’t try to force the issue. It’s a massage, not sex. If the couple tries to make the massage sexual, they could easily get themselves into a lot of trouble. The goal of the tantric massage is to relax and open the mind of your partner, helping them to let go of their inhibitions and feel more comfortable with you and themselves.
Light Some Incense and Candles
Tantra is all about creating a comfortable, relaxing atmosphere, and there’s no better way to do that than with a few carefully placed candles and a pot of incense. It doesn’t have to be anything too fancy. Some of the cheaper scents will be just as effective as the more expensive stuff, and you’re not going to be burning it for long anyway. As your partner will be lying face down, they won’t be able to see the candles anyway, and candles are much safer than scented oils. And don’t forget to turn out the lights!
Don’t Forget the Oil
As well as helping to relax your partner, a little bit of oil will also provide a little bit of lubrication as you massage their body. This is important because a lot of people are really self-conscious about their bodies, particularly their backs and buttocks, and an oil massage will make these areas look a lot less noticeable. A massage oil with a bit of a scent is best for a tantric massage as it will give off a little bit of a fragrance, helping to create that relaxing atmosphere we talked about earlier.
Don’t Be Afraid to Experiment
You should never feel like you have to stick to the standard tantric massage guide, as there’s nothing standard about it. The whole point of the London tantric massage is experimentation, and you should both be willing to try new things. Don’t be afraid to try new techniques, scents, and positions. If something doesn’t feel right, then it’s fine to change it. It’s important for both partners to be comfortable and relaxed during the massage, and if something isn’t working, then you should change it.
Keep these tips in mind and you’ll be giving your partner an unforgettable experience that they’ll be talking about for years to come. And who knows, they might want to return the favor!